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#LONELY AT THE TOP

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Is there any leader out there who can identify with that cold feeling, especially when the chips are down, reality is , that you're alone. Sometimes folks are standing by, yet you feel so alone. Its a weird feeling but its real. You can be loved, respected, successful, and appreciated, but still feel like you're swinging the sword alone. I have e worked with many big men, entrepreneurs, corporate and church leaders etc, and I see this scenario play out many times, no one to trust with your deepest fears, thoughts and worries, its sometimes cold, sad and lonely at the top. As great as #Albert Einstein was, he came to a point when he reiterated, It is strange to be known so universally and yet to be so lonely. . Those moments can be really depressing if not managed properly. So I ask, Is this the scourge of all true leaders? Is it a Leadership condition? Is there a permanent cure, drug or treatment for this? Well, #Dan #Rockwell, the #Leadership #Freak, seems to believe that

Love on the Rocks

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Is your marriage or any relationship on the rocks? No one (husband, wife, parent, child, colleague, neighbor, friends etc)  seems to understand you or can help your love life.  Don't worry. I got you covered and I'm the case study. My last relationship was an emotional rollercoaster, a struggle. I liked the guy from the beginning but along the line I began to feel unloved, empty, bored, dissatisfied. Nothing, no bliss in the horizon to look forward to. I asked myself questions; what's wrong with me? Am I such a perfectionist that a good Christian guy can't love me enough? What would it take to love me? What are my really looking for? What am I looking forward to in this marriage? No butterflies, happy ever after flashes? What's the point getting married? What's wrong with me? I spoke with some friends, they said to give it time, to lower my standards,  pray more, endure, pipe down, to become a stooge...and all sorts of things including a postulation that