MONTEÈCLAIRS TRANSFORMATION INITIATIVE

Who am I? Why am I here? What?How? When? Recently I've had to counsel, teach and coach in churches, groups and individuals on issues which centre on who we really are and why we're here.  Many have contemplated and committed suicide being unable to find answers to the questions of life,  depressed,  unhappy and disorientated. Some questions I teach them to ask are 7 Fundamental Questions, as discussed by Dr. Abu Bako 1.  WHO AM I? Who really are you? 2.  WHERE AM I? Where are you in relation to God, life and time? Are you in the exact place and location God planned for your life this very moment? 3.  WHY AM I HERE? What difference are you making where you are? 4.  WHERE DO I GO FROM HERE? Your work is incomplete if you do not get to the finishing line. What definite steps are you taking to get to your destination? 5.  HOW DO I GET THERE? How would you succeed if you don't know how you were meant to function? Are you among the many who are unable to get there mai

Protecting your destiny and calling by GIVING diligence to your relationship and walk with God is of the essence. Considering sexual purity and the power of destiny. To be sexually pure is to abstain from all forms romantic activity before and outside marriage (premarital and extramarital). If peradventure, Joseph had indulged in some dodgy affairs with Mary before the wedding (premarital), it would have been assumed by biological assumption that it was Joseph who deposited the spermatozoa into Mary...and eventually, something would have gone wrong somewhere with destiny. This is one perspective to sexual purity. Also, if they both have gone ahead to satisfy the desires of their flesh,... They would have done it at the expense of their divine destiny, they would have lost it. Joseph would have been rendered irrelevant in the place of his destiny. Mary's name would have been wiped out of the sands of time. Though God by His mercy would have forgiven them of their sin if they se

Femi Onifade brought this up in the Monteeclairs whatsapp group and I feel it's worth sharing because a lot of have 'interesting yet vague' ideas of what it means to be MATURE.  For instance, when my mum was a spinster , one of her suitors considered her mature because he farted (mess) so much when he went visiting and she didn't say a word about it nor show how smelly it was (like rotten eggs mixed with 3 day old beans).  I'm glad she didn't marry him. Enjoy the article! Usually, I hear a few people talk about maturity and I have discovered that their mindsets and thoughts are always tilted towards age, natural growth and development, and material possessions but Inasmuch as I try not to argue---I think maturity in real life has got only a little to do with achieving natural growth and development. To be more direct, a matured person is one who is able to live life with principles and wisdom. One who delights in humility and learning from others. A